Is Marriage too easy? what does Islam say?

Marriage

Is Marriage too easy?

In a very young age, once I asked about the idea of ​​a friend, I would say, ‘I will stay alive’. Then what are my twelve bars? It is very unusual for a girl of that age to know what it is ‘what’. But I got the idea that it is clear from the page of a story book.
Now when I hear the word ‘live togdaar’ I am quite shy. Two people will remain bound only to meet the ‘hunger’ of the body and whenever they want, they will be able to ‘free’ themselves from this relationship. In the Western movies, these concepts are highlighted as very fashionable. It seems to me that the real happiness is the same. If luck is good, then love can be found in such a way. Although in reality it is absolutely false.Just a little bit, these defects are found. Even Boccasoka can be easily understood by anyone.

There are two sides in every human being. His intelligence, conscience or thinking, and some of his emotions or philosophies. Using these two aspects, we consider anything. However, there is more emotions than the logic of creating relations.

And these feelings of mind when strong in adolescence, youth and youth; Just after we get the idea of ​​Live Toughedar, permission to create uninterrupted love or love typing relationships instead of accountable relationships. This is repeatedly enhanced with extra glamor in songs, magazines, internet, plays and movies.

However, note that each of these relations is only based on the biological desire and freedoms of the human beings. A human has some physical and emotional needs. But the society is not trying to make its way into the thinking of the people of the society, even though saying only the medium of theoretical marriage to meet this demand. Rather, he is silently responding to the opposite. Most children are growing up with the idea that ‘if I wish, I will relate, I will break my wish’. Believing people is limited in their own determination. There is no one else to understand what is right, how much wrong it is to be more than yourself. So what was dirty yesterday, mischief and misery; Today, so is the presence of love masks. Talking, friendships, hands holding hands, getting kissed or getting into bed.

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The storybooks and novels are also known for their ruckus. I have been publishing some lines from the country’s famous author’s book
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‘Regrettably, Leve Together is yet to launch in Bangladesh. Marriage means bond. There is no creative work from within brackets. ‘
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In the last few years this idea has been deeply embedded in the human mindset. Some years ago, people were afraid to say ‘love’. Hide it But today, many love is a matter of pride. If not, they are Backdated, Filingslace, and Auburnal. So now people are rather shy to say that my boyfriend or girlfriend is not. And to say that I have a boyfriend or girlfriend, I mean, I have done a huge ‘Achieve’. The ability of a boy or girl to become the ‘status’ of the status of the relationship has been created. Where people are feeling self-respect, they have to rely on some misconceptions made by others to be good.
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Even though the society has given legitimacy to marriage only, love has not been allowed to be love but illegal. Rather than provoking him. It indicates that it is not wrong. So children are finding the ‘fan’ in love and love, following the rate of pride of society. By giving self-esteem to individual freedom, greed and selfishness, they think they are better. But in love love and at the time of Love Together, the chastity of a woman and the personality of a man does not keep society in its account. The society also does not answer the question that a child born is responsible for the parental responsibility. Their social status, what is the future, the society is silent
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The new generation jumped into this terrible darkness with a blurred idea.

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Then once when the stomach of their desires fills a bit, then they find themselves in dirty places rather than sewage. And there is no way to get back from there. How many mentality is lost in choosing this erroneous way of living out of responsibility? People have lost their faith. The biggest thing is that a person starts to think of the most important aspects of life to meet its physical and sexual needs just like animals. But where is the difference between man and animal?

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 Marriage

Is not it a shame for a girl to sleep in bed for a girl?
To meet the needs of a boy, how reasonable is it to give women their own honor and body spirit outside marriage? Is the value of a woman so low?
How to ensure a relation with the body for a little pleasure in the body, is it permanent solution?
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Why boyfriend can take so much pleasure in his hands, why can not he be accepted as a husband?

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It is also a big question whether such relationships really develop based on love. The person who is serving today, broke the relationship for a mistake of his time, broken into pieces. So do we think for ourselves or for ourselves? The whole relationship is standing on the basis of a kind of selfishness, there is no sarcasm of responsibility. Here we all have ‘dame care’ More interested in thinking about yourself. If I break the relationship, then I do not have to worry about who gets hurt. Only ‘my’ likes him, so ‘I’ will stay with him. The ‘I’ is more important than the person in front of the front. In the same way, the front man too is giving more importance to himself. Game of ‘Giv and Tech’ The result of which is zero.
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Now a simple question.
Are you in relation, are you happy?
No, we are not happy, because if we were happy, I could not talk to another boy for hours with a boy for a boyfriend. Always looking at our mind, we can not get it.
So what is the relation between the future of such a relationship?
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Just body. Unbelief of mind When nothing is accomplished with this body being enslaved by one’s body, at one time it seems that life is worthless.
In Islam, there is no position in such a relationship, where more interests are preferred than human honor. Where all the good, there is no relation to stability. Where consciousness disappears and only the thirst of the body, and the desires of the mind become busy like animals.

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With the approval of such relations, animal livestock is only waking up. When people defame others’ independence in the name of freedom, break the dreams of others. Do we want someone who uses my body to throw me away? What is this love The relationship between the two parties, which does not provide permanent solutions to physical and mental needs, has no value. It can not be helpful in building a society and in progress.
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Rather, two people in Islam pledge to walk together through marriage to celebrate the Sunnah of the Prophet (peace be upon him) fearing Allah. There is love there. Have love. There are children in the cottage. The two pledges to have healthy family life with respect, affection and compassion for each other.
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Also read How to be a happy couple – Guide of Perfect Love

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Islam donates life to the beginning of life. Relations for people’s convenience, not people for relationships. So, after reading the relationship, a Muslim does not teach Islam to be saddened. But in our secular society, the person’s freedom tells us that I can get what I want. There is no limit to my will. Then there is a dirty unintended consequence of running blindly behind the will, whether it is related to the next or the next complexity – the society does not have its responsibility. Secular society does not prevent us from becoming greedy. So there are thoughts, ‘I want it or that’. But Islam says about restraint. Here a boy and a girl think of each other’s advantages. Thinking about this dirty consequence of Islam, Islam first gave sight limits, hijab and rules of elegant conduct. Therefore, it is possible to build a progressive state by working alongside and maintaining respect for men and women in Islamic society, and in the defective society of Secular, it is hoped that only tears, frustration and dreams of dreams

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